Categories: Dating Tips for Men and Women

Singles Dating Sites

There are a lot of single dating sites available on the web. Most of these sites are free. But, some of the sites out there are asking for a sort of “membership fee”. Don’t be fooled. You don’t need to pay anything just to have a friend or an online date. There are a lot of scams and bogus on the internet trying to abuse innocent people by making money out of them. As there is a great increase in number of singles all around the globe, so as the growth of this online single dating sites. Some administrators of these sites are just making these sites as a fortune making business.


Here are some tips to avoid being a victim of these scam online dating sites:

1.       Almost all online single dating sites are free. If by chance you have encounter a dating site asking for a fee or a membership fee, that’s the clue to think twice in joining that site.

2.       If the dating site is asking details of your bank accounts, credit cards or any other financial and paying method, click that exit button right away.

3.       If the profiles you see on the sites are “too good to be true” well, investigate first before entering any relationship from that person.

4.       If the single dating sites are asking too many questions that you think are irrelevant and you feel uncomfortable, get out from there.  There are a lot of dating sites that can take care of you.

5.       Spam! Avoid spam. If the site cannot control spam messages, quit it.

6.       You must be in control. The site must have the block option and you have the authority to do so. You can block unwanted persons so that they can’t contact you.

7.       There should be no charges! As in NO! Nothing at all.

Dating For Single Parent


You probably have so little time and sometimes dating seems to be an impossible task. I’m sure single parents out there would say “yes” to this statement. If you consider yourself as a responsible parent, you are very cautious about the person you are dating not only for your safety but for the safety of your children. Sometimes you also feel guilty because you are not sure if dating is OK or your children are comfortable with it. But I’m telling you, you too deserve to be happy so long as your children are not disrupted by your dating.


Dating For Single Parents

Are you a single parent looking out for a great date but doesn’t have the time to go out and mingle with other people? Are you longing for that special someone that will treat you right and love you the way you deserve? Are you new to this online dating for single parents that are common nowadays? If so, then this article is for you.

Online dating for single parents are of course intended for single parents out there searching for a date. An online date is no different from an ordinary or personal date. In fact, online dating is the trend today. Single parents don’t have the luxury of time unlike other normal couples. They have a lot of responsibilities to attend to. So going on for a date is sometimes a challenge for them. Here, in online dating, single parents just need to create an account in an online dating site and make his or her profile standout above anyone else to attract attention. For starters out there, here are some tips that you should do to make you an “online head turner” and “the apple of the eye” of the online population.


1.       Make your profile the best profile of all. This doesn’t mean that you will invent things; just put the necessary information that you think your date are interested in knowing.

2.       Make your profile always up to date. Include the activities that you’re into for the current time, your favorites and your dislikes.

3.       Upload a photo. Who wants to date an anonymous person? Remember that single parents’ participants are looking at the profile pictures first.  And of course, we have to admit that good looks really get the attention of people. So wear your best smile and have a proper grooming on that photo of yours.

4.       Be friendly. Online dating for single parents should be fun. Remember that you are talking to people who are also experiencing almost the same things just like you are.

5.       Have the best camera or webcam that you have and set that on a place with a good lighting source. People don’t want to talk to shadows.

6.       Be honest. Be sincere.


If you follow these tips, surely, after a few months or a couple of time, you will meet a date. Later on, you may set a date personally to know each other better.

Benefits of Being Single

Some people prefer to stay single because of the advantages they are getting. But good things have disadvantages too. I asked some of my single friends their reasons why they are still single. One of which is the complete freedom to flirt whoever you want and anywhere you want. Because when you’re single, no need for you to feel guilty. After all, you’re totally unattached.

Being single allows you to be more spontaneous in your life. You can make that decision right away without consulting with someone or let that someone decide for you. No one is holding you accountable for your actions. You are in control of the way you spend your time and no need for your partner to know your whereabouts.

Being single gives you control over your money. Yes, it’s true! Why? Because it gives you full financial freedom and you are totally in control of your money. You can buy things for yourself without having to worry that someone will ask you questions why you’re spending money on your purchases.

If you have a good career, your single status lets your focus on your career. You can devote extra time to your work and you don’t have to worry about sacrificing your time and love life. You can make use of your time to impress your boss by delivering projects on time.

All of us have bad habits. So, if you’re single you are giving yourself a favor not to tolerate your partner’s annoying habits. You can now sleep peacefully without hearing your partner snoring or a messy girlfriend who cannot clean the clutters.

Lastly, you have more time for yourself and your family. You’re the boss of your own time. You can decide whom you want to spend your time with. Apart from this, being single means no heartache. Your emotion is stable. It also gives you a chance to know yourself better and assess what you want to accomplish in life.


Tired of Being Single?

Singlehood has its perks and but it isn’t for everyone. Eventually you will get tired from late night parties, going out for a random dates and being alone. Some people have been single for so long that they have forgotten how rewarding a healthy relationship can be. Unfortunately, finding a partner is not as easy as ABC. That said, you need to improve your chances in finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right.


Before going back to the dating scene, you need to prepare your mindset and healthy approach so you won’t get disappointed. Dump the negative feelings and frustrations so you can decide what you want and follow what your heart desires. You have to shake yourself out of the solo-act mindset. You’re going to be sharing your life with another person again and you should be ready with this transition in your life. You don’t have to rush things though. But keep in mind that it is better to be prepared to avoid disappointments.


Sometimes, single people who aren’t looking for love tend to neglect themselves, as they have no one to impress. Head to the gym to work out a bit and clean up your closet and prepare your dress up clothes. For men, cut your hair and shave your beard to impress the target of your desire. And for women, you might need a hair cut too or color your hair, wax your body hair and make sure your nails are clean.


Work on your confidence. Do not isolate yourself from the rest of the mankind. I know it takes a lot of courage but best way to do this is to get out into the world again and socialize with people. While doing so you can try hanging out with your friends and boost your confidence to new levels by introducing yourself to relative strangers. Once you’re good enough at chatting for fun you can start dating the person you are interested in.


Recognize your accomplishments in life and take up new hobbies. Recognizing your past achievements will help you go up the ladder and boost your confidence in chatting with other people. Don’t worry. You will find your partner eventually. Keep in mind that relationships often start up when you least expect them.


Disadvantages of Being Single

Singlehood has its highs and lows. Many people think that being single equals freedom but it has some disadvantages that you should know. Having been in a relationship for a considerable period of time and you have been just dumped, it is hard to see the positive side of being single. Not everyone can embrace the single lifestyle with enthusiasm but for some, there may be plenty of reasons to enjoy being single. And studies have actually shown that being single for a long time can actually shorten your lifespan.


We humans are biologically engineered to connect with someone and fall in love. We need contact with others too. Lack of support, not having children and loneliness are the major disadvantages of being single. Not having someone to snuggle up to while watching a movie or even having a regular sex partner can cause loneliness and frustration. When you’re single you usually live on your own and have no one to ask whether or not you look attractive in the clothes you’re wearing. You don’t have a special someone to make an effort when it comes to your appearance so you may be tempted to let yourself go a bit, piling on the pounds and wearing scruffy clothes.


Disadvantages of being single can be economic and you get less money for taxes. Singles are more likely to face poverty because of fewer employment benefits, higher levels of unemployment, lower wages and lower social security and unemployment benefits. Another disadvantage of being single is not having children. For kids their parents are the strongest and most beautiful person in the world, and pleasure in the world is better than this.


There are plenty of good reasons for being single but we are biologically born to find our other half to be happy and fulfilled with our lives. After all if you ask your parent one simple question. Is getting married worth it? They all agree that yes it is.


Confidence in Dating


Men and women are attractive when they are confident. Confidence makes a person go weak at the knees. It is a state where a person feels sure of his/her self and abilities, knows what he/she is about, knows him/her self for what he/she can do, what he/she may fail at but does not fear to try. To date successfully, you need to increase your confidence level because nothing can be achieved without trying. Lack of self-confidence can stem from feelings of insecurity. Sometimes, we tend not to assert ourselves because of fear or bad feeling about ourselves.


To get started, you have to identify the things that make you feel bad or secretive about and determine what you can do to change them. Your fear decreases once you have a full understanding of your problem. You need to take a difficult first step and look inside yourself to discover where and why you feel vulnerable. Your vulnerability may have something to do with your looks, your past experience, family and perceived intelligence.


Identifying your weaknesses is not enough. You also need to explore great aspects about yourself. You can start by making a big list of things you have accomplished or things you consider as your strength. Identify your skills that are absolutely essential in community organizations you will start feeling an increase in your confidence. Some studies have shown that changing your behavior speed up your path to increase self-confidence. Try smiling more, exercise and get enough sleep, take time to unwind after a very stressful week.


Try to think of yourself as a separate person. As you go through the process of improving your self-image and increasing your self-confidence, think about yourself in the third person as you evaluate your progress. If you can do any of them well, you have traits to cherish!








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Welcome , June 9, 2012